Good afternoon Everybody,
I hope everyone has been able to enjoy the day in some shape or form today. I have friends in LA, friends working at their stores (big shouts to The Website Shop owned by Mr. Butler www.thewebsiteshop.net ), friends in the mountains for the weekends and a friend coming over. In each of those stories, there are many sub stories and plots that weren't quite planned, but sure worked out really well.
The reason why it has worked out well is that my friends and I have learned that...sometimes, its okay to go with the flow. When you are able to relinquish control of a situation or go with the "greater good consensus", you let others know that you respect them and trust them enough to follow an idea that is theirs. It's not that you cannot come up with the better idea or that you are a follower. The idea here is that you are a big enough man (or woman) to take someone's suggestion and let their light shine.
To be this type of person, takes time. You have to know when to hold 'em and know when to go for the gusto! ...In the long run, you will also find out that your friends will seek you and appreciate you more when you adopt the "go with the flow" attitude. The art of being a "go with the flow" person usually takes a lifetime to figure out. People get all stressed out over being in "control", when in actuality, you're always in some form of control....you just have to look at instances from a different point of view.
....PS...Going with the flow has sprang me Mexican food, good company and a great night to look forward to!
Try it out sometimes
I hope everyone has been able to enjoy the day in some shape or form today. I have friends in LA, friends working at their stores (big shouts to The Website Shop owned by Mr. Butler www.thewebsiteshop.net ), friends in the mountains for the weekends and a friend coming over. In each of those stories, there are many sub stories and plots that weren't quite planned, but sure worked out really well.
The reason why it has worked out well is that my friends and I have learned that...sometimes, its okay to go with the flow. When you are able to relinquish control of a situation or go with the "greater good consensus", you let others know that you respect them and trust them enough to follow an idea that is theirs. It's not that you cannot come up with the better idea or that you are a follower. The idea here is that you are a big enough man (or woman) to take someone's suggestion and let their light shine.
To be this type of person, takes time. You have to know when to hold 'em and know when to go for the gusto! ...In the long run, you will also find out that your friends will seek you and appreciate you more when you adopt the "go with the flow" attitude. The art of being a "go with the flow" person usually takes a lifetime to figure out. People get all stressed out over being in "control", when in actuality, you're always in some form of control....you just have to look at instances from a different point of view.
....PS...Going with the flow has sprang me Mexican food, good company and a great night to look forward to!
Try it out sometimes
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